Gratitude: A List
I read a post by Julie from Women Unlimited a couple of weeks ago, in which she recommended some of her favourite “self-help” books. As a former self-help addict, I decided to buy one of them – 59 Seconds: Think a Little, Change a Lot. One of the first exercises in the book (aimed at making you happier, basically), is writing a regular gratitude list.
So I wouldn’t say that I’m in particular need of a happiness boost (today, at least
) – but given that I’m stopping work today to go on maternity leave, I thought it would be a good time to take a few moments to reflect and write a different type of post. So here goes! In no comprehensive and in no particular order….here are the things I’m feeling particularly grateful for today:
Technology – the fact I can stay connected and keep my business going without me while on maternity leave. I can schedule blog posts and tweets in advance with tools like HootSuite and the Editorial Calendar plug-in for WordPress. Stay in touch thanks to Twitter, Facebook and email on my phone. Hold live video chats on Skype with friends and family when the new baby arrives. Just amazing when you think about it. To all the clever, clever people who make this happen without me giving it a second thought – I owe you a lot!
My partner – Dave, for supporting me in everything I do, and hardly ever suggesting I go out and get a “proper job”
. He puts so much work into everything behind the scenes, and never questions why I need him to install another plug-in, set up another email address, or empty the compost bin. Without him our house would still resemble a crack den 12 months in, and my websites would be ridiculous piles of shite. Oh and I wouldn’t have our totally loony, hilarious son – and the bundle of joy that’s yet to come. I never thank him enough, so this is my chance.
The Handmade Horizons ladies – last summer, I had an idea. That idea was to create an e-course to help women sell their handmade products online. Fast-forward 10 months, and it has actually happened! Not only that, but it has been a fantastic success. That would never have happened without the belief, trust and support of some truly amazing and talented women. First of all to my amazing co-conspirator Polly, then Amanda, Emma, Helen, Katie, Karen, Karen, Debbie, Jenny, Suzie, Melanie, Paula, Ali, Rosie, Sam, Claire, Alex, Lara, Hannah, Abi, Chloe…and everyone else who supported us, in so many ways. Thank you for taking that leap of faith. I am more grateful than you could ever know.
My family, who have helped me out such a lot this year. I am so lucky and grateful to have you all living so close, and hope you know how much I appreciate your support.
Teachers – not the ones I had at school (not that there was anything wrong with them…) – but the people who freely share the amazing content which makes me think each day. Thanks to them, I am continually learning, being inspired, and challenging myself in new and different ways. People like Seth Godin, Marie Forleo, Brian Clark, Jon Morrow, Jen Louden and Corbett Barr. Thank you for sharing so freely, and letting us into your world.
The Welfare State – as much I may struggle to understand how a self-employed mum is supposed to keep her business running while being restricted to 1 “keeping in touch” day a month….I am nonetheless very grateful that maternity allowance will make things a little big easier until I go back to work. I am grateful for the fact that the year we came back to the UK with a baby and no work lined-up, tax credits helped keep us afloat. I am grateful, proud, and absolutely convinced of the need to fight to protect the welfare state to help those more needy than myself.
The NHS – see above. I’ve been to see a midwife and a “prescribing nurse” this week. Both were free. I get to choose where I want to give birth. I have choices. I am lucky. Let’s protect what we have got. Save our NHS.Amazon Marketplace – much as I love getting my learning fix online, a book is significantly easier to handle than a laptop in bed. (No, I haven’t got a Kindle or iPad. Yet). For shipping me second-hand books for 1p plus about £2 postage from the US! – Amazon, a hearty thanks.
My wonderful friends, old and new. Some have been woefully neglected as I’ve battled deadlines and pregnancy hormones, some re-ignited as paths have crossed anew. I am so grateful to count you as friends, and look forward to catching up with you as this next chapter unfolds!
The Principality Building Society - for giving me a mortgage despite being self employed, so we could take on this crazy house project
Ask me in 15 years if it was worth all the stress….
Spotify.Millions of tunes, on-tap, for nowt. Can’t get better than that!
Our dog, Carla – for keeping me company and (sort-of) sane during these weeks and months of working alone. You drive me round the bend, but I love you very much.
The generosity of others – as I’m writing this, Sport Relief is on TV. £29.1 million has been raised already, and it’s not even 10pm. Bloody brilliant. If you haven’t already, text 70010 to donate £10, or do it online. Takes 2 seconds, give something if you can.
For being a woman – yes we may have to do the hard stuff when it comes to having babies (heartburn and hernias, anyone?!), and it is bloody hard at times being a working mum. But hands-up – I love being a woman, and I love doing business with other ladies too. I love the way we share, support, and help each other out. I want to do more to help other women who are not as fortunate as me, and will continue to try and figure out ways to do that this year.
Others – the fab Most Wanted team, Selina at Screw Work Lets Play, egg custard tarts and Raspberry Leaf Tea. All those ace women selling baby clothes bundles on eBay. I could go, but I won’t, today at least.
What are you grateful for? I’d love to know – let me know by leaving a comment below.















